OBEDIENT LOVE
FLR TRANSFORMATION
FOR COUPLES
She makes the rules.
Leave traditional or egalitarian power dynamics behind and transform your relationship into its most natural and satisfying female-led state.
How many people take the time and make the effort to give undivided attention to their relationship power dynamic? Those who do, have happier, more joyful and intimate experiences with their partner!
Whether you are just introducing FLR to your partner, or you are trying to ramp up your current female-led dynamic, your experienced FLR coach Ms. Viola Voltairine can lovingly and powerfully guide you into the relationship you crave. Don't worry if you're new to this. This workshop takes you step-by-step and gives you a deeper understanding of what FLR is all about.
Ms. V. views FLR as the natural order of heterosexual relationships. As a dedicated Gynarchist, she can guide you to discover and establish all the right protocols. She'll teach you the communication tools you need and the personal exercises that will refine your mindset.
Overcome all the roadblocks...
Tame his ego and acknowledge his submissive nature.
There are tricky ways that the male ego can sneak into a dynamic and make things feel off. Ms. V. will reveal these hidden roadblocks, and teach how to acknowledge his submission is a way that feels effortless and keeps him firmly in his place. Even the most service-oriented man could use some training. This workshop provides exercises that help relieve him of self-centered thinking.
Enhance her ability to command from a place of genuine desire.
When she commands from a place of desire, it changes the game! No woman should be asked to "perform" dominance for the sole benefit of her partner. Her leadership and control should happen naturally and be adapted to her specific personality and preferences. Ms. V.'s exercises help women understand what they really desire and allows them to feel good about commanding it without an ounce of hesitation or guilt. You can lose the good girl people-pleaser tendencies without losing who you really are, or compromising what makes you happy and comfortable. FLR is all about pleasing the woman, afterall!
Step into a fight-free relationship.
An FLR is sure to increase your intimacy, clarify and strengthen your communication, and it will make fights a near impossibility. By putting solid agreements in place, and working through the course corrections to make if those agreements get broken or no longer work, Ms. V. will show you how to navigate if things start to get muddled. FLR households never have raised voices or unbreakable tensions. We will practice conflict resolution in the female-led way!
The Roadmap to your FLR:
In week one:
We do a relationship inventory and assess your strengths, weaknesses, joys and struggles within your particular relationship. We establish your relationship story and work through some effective communication methods based on your needs.
In weeks two and three:
We hone in on the most important aspect of FLR - the Mindset. We work on resistances and misconceptions, and do specially designed exercises to uncover her desire and to open up his humility and vulnerability.
In week four:
We begin to refine sets of protocols, rules, rituals and routines that will enhance and amplify the uneven power dynamic. We talk about how to express appreciation and affection for one another in the most juicy and highly charged ways.
In week five:
We play! We enter the FLR Lab and experiment with all sorts of new activities and ideas, and the submissive is given a fun research assignment.
In week six:
We formalize everything from conflict resolution to protocols, schedules, habits, and her "happiness list" into your official FLR contract and then we review how far you've come, and celebrate!
Gong forward:
Chat with other FLR couples any time, meet every two weeks for lively group discussions, and women can practice the women's energetics and power exercises in the women's only community.
LIVE GUIDED WORKSHOP
WITH COACHING
OPENS DECEMBER 27
One Payment
Includes:
6 weeks of pre-recorded video and audio lessons and exercises
Fillable PDF workbook
One-year subscription to the FLR couples community with like-minded couples
One-year subscription to the women-only community to practice the exercises with other women
PRIORITY 24/7 direct messages to Ms. Viola answered within 6 hours
3 intensive private video coaching sessions up to 90 minutes each with Ms. V. (with a discount on additional sessions if desired)
BONUSES
Live group calls every two weeks where we can workshop your issues and celebrate your successes.
The perfect-bound print version of the workbook
Comprehensive lesson on domestic service for men from Ms. V.'s upcoming course
Recorded lessons open December 27, 2024
Live sessions begin
January 5, 2025
One full year of live bi-weekly group calls and live practice sessions for women with Ms. V. are included.
SELF-DIRECTED
WORKSHOP
SUBSCRIPTION
BEGINS DECEMBER 27
START FOR $197
*6-month minimum commitment
Includes:
6 weeks of pre-recorded video and audio lessons and exercises
Fillable PDF workbook
Access to the FLR couples community with like-minded couples
Access to the women-only community to practice the exercises with other women
24/7 direct messages to Ms. Viola answered within 12 hours
BONUS
Live group calls every two weeks where we can workshop your issues and celebrate your successes
Comprehensive lesson on domestic service for men from Ms. V.'s upcoming course
Launches December 27, 2024
Live group calls begin January 5, 2025
PRIVATE COACHING NOT INCLUDED
You may add on coaching later if desired at a higher rate than the guided workshop option.
*IMPORTANT: By joining you agree to subscribe for no less than 6 months, at $97 per month after your first payment. After 6 months you may cancel and leave the communities any time.